Recollecting the treasured memories…. strengthens the shared meaning ….by building a deeper emotional connection…It is a relational way of reminiscing about the olden times…By opening them again with the other….it becomes a throwback to the forgotten past….but as you gather those times…it becomes a shared moment cuddling by the fire…for no longer are they memories frozen mutely in time…rather a melting past revived to savor a lifeless relationship….