Don’t be consumed by what you consume. Choose to use your cellphone, don’t let your cellphone use you. Choose to control your alcohol, don’t let your alcohol to control you. Choose to control your anger , don’t let your anger to control you. Choose to control your sex drive , don’t let your sex drive control you. Choose to control your social media or internet, don’t let social media or internet control you.
You are worse than a corrupt politician if you don’t vote, because tomorrow. You will be the first to complain about bad service delivery and how bad the country is being run by bad leaders and criminals.
Choose to hustle now, to work hard now, to make all the sacrifice now. So that you can enjoy your tomorrow. Whatever it is that you suppose to do now. If you don’t do it now, it will affect you badly for the rest of your life.
When the youth or children describe freedom as being able to drink alcohol freely without supervision, being judged, rebuked, stopped or punished. To be bold, beautiful, proud, confident and being able to express yourself it means you must be naked. Then we had failed as a society or nation to set good example for the youth. Their future doesn’t look bright either. There will be burden instead of a solution to the society.
To lovers there.Most ladies the reason they are dumped and their relationship doesn’t last is they made themselves to become a want than a need in a relationship.
All I am fighting for everyday is to make up for the time I had lost. Use your time wisely.
Choose not see things from jealous side point of view. People happiness, joy , success , good relationships will trigger you . They will trigger you to be bitter , petty , hurt and miserable.
Choose to stay away from people who would not let you have your moment. They will talk about their moment in your moments. They will be like yeah you bought a car but my car. You have a house but my house. They don’t let you be and enjoy what you have without them comparing or mentioning what they have that is better than yours.
To Lovers out there ….It is hard to recognize and to keep the real one or the right one. When you have fake friends or bad friends.
I just hope most artists will realise it is not just talent only that makes you succeed.There is a lot. Planning, structuring, hard work, commitment, dedication, training, perseverance, and most importantly working well with others.
You are stressing about what other people might be thinking about you. Chances are you can be 100 % correct or incorrect. Without superpowers, you might not know what others are thinking unless they tell you. Whatever you think they are thinking. It is not their thinking, but It is your thinking. Stop creating threatening bad situations and environments in your head that will prevent you from doing well in life.
Anything wrong you do knowingly. Has the risk to it. The more you know whatever you are doing is wrong. The bigger the risk , the greater the danger , bigger the consequences and severe the damage.
In life it is either you choose to prove people right or you choose to prove people wrong on what they think of you. It all depends on your actions.
Our biggest problem is that we are a generation that chooses to compete,because the only time we think we are better or doing better is when we compare ourselves to others.We choose not to support each or be there for one another because we see everyone as a competition and a threat. We rather see other businesses fail than succeed because we are in competition with the owners.
To lovers out there…Most marriages don’t work because people get married to an idea than a person. It is the idea they have of them getting married or an idea they have about the other person. Because he/she goes to church , Because he/she is rich, because he/she looks innocent, because he/she is educated. They marry someone on what they have or do but not on who they are.
Our obsession of being accepted by others has turned us into a society that has No shame . No love. No remorse . No morals. No role models. No direction. No rules. No laws. No gender . No culture. No religion. No respect of others and for ourselves. Mostly we have No boundaries. That is why the things are the way they are now.
A confused person, confuses everyone around them. When someone is lost. Whoever follows them becomes lost too. They find each other but they are lost together. Choose careful the people or leaders you follow. Choose carefully the people or friends you hang around with.
If you keep on making excuses to me. What you are doing is teaching me to always make excuses to you.
We are not saying everyone must suffer, become a street kid , homeless or have a sad sobbing story in order to make it. We are saying everyone needs to make the best of their situation. Use every resource possible at their disposal. Don’t be discouraged because of your surroundings or background but you should do everything in your power to fight poverty. The end goal is not to suffer or beg anymore.
Learn to separate your work life from your personal life. That includes your position or titles. Once you use your work position or titles, in your social or personal space. You will lose your social or personal space. It be in your relations. The relationship dies. In your friendship. The friendship dies. In your family. The family bond and love die. It is because you can’t use power, force, pressure, demands, or commands on love. It dies.
You are not living soft life if you are using other people’s things and money.
Now, it makes sense why they don’t want to connect us to what made them successful. Their success came from drugs, money, diamond , gold laundering, prostitution, human trafficking, heist, kidnappings, corruption, fraud, extortion and killings.
To lovers out there …If you think love is a game. You will lose. You will fool around, play around and at the end , you will find out by losing. Losing interests, partner, love, passion, integrity, money, kindness, morals, time, losing yourself and if you are unlucky losing your life. That is why some people who think like that are scoring or winning dates, hot partners, arguments, sex and other people’s partner, but losing love.
We are all hurt, sad, scared, angry and fed-up , but that is not enough to bring changes in our lives. Change only happens because we are making a change not because we have suffered enough. Unless you do something that you think will make a difference. Everything will remain the same.
To lovers out there …A hurting relationship is a relationship that one is 100 percent fully concentrating on another person, and a good working relationship is a relationship that is 50/50. 50 is concentrating on another person and another 50 is concentrating on yourself.
Everyone should make it their duty to serve their own country. They must cleanup and take care of the infrastructure, environment and where they stay .They must protect the children, man ,women and the infrastructure . If everyone participates to become good citizen. Our country will be a safe and better place.
To lovers out there …Some people when they are looking for a partner. They are looking for someone whom they can manipulate. If they can’t manipulate you as a partner in doing what they want. You are not their soul mate or the right person to date., because guilt-trapping you to do anything they want won’t work on you.
To lovers out there…When your partner treats you like a Queen or a King. It doesn’t mean you should treat them like slaves , beggars or your servants.
Anything that needs to be proven. It is not it. For the fact that you have to prove it is. It means its being is questionable that it might happen to be something else. If it is what it is. The won’t be a need to convince , persuade , and influence others. So as to change their narrative or perception to see it the way you see it.
I had seen lot of good talent gone to waste because of ego, character and attitude of those talented individuals.
Many people choose to complain.Most choose to hate and only few choose to hustle. Pick your struggle.
Build yourself a life or a career where you can afford to sleep peaceful at night.
Listening Is one of the best critical and very Important life skill you should have as a person In order to succeed In life. Most If not all the time when I fail, It is because I wasn’t listening. Listening not just to respond, but to understand. Listening to your gut or Intuition. Listening to your heart or feelings. Listening to other people.
They might pay you to vote for them, but having a wrong government in place. You pay it with your life.
You don’t have to lie to tell the truth. One lie of what is happening or what happened makes the whole thing unbelievable and questionable.
Another method or way of reducing stress and depression. Is to avoid making time and sacrifices for people who think less of you. People who think you are not important. You will spend most of your precious time. Trying to prove and to get their validation, but still, they won’t care, because to them you not worth it.
If I have something going for myself. You don’t know what I have got and how I am keeping it going. It will be hard for me to listen to you or to listen to your advice, especially if you are not contributing or supporting financially or resources wise.
People who don’t want to take accountability and responsibility. They always choose to blame everyone for everything, but themselves. It is always someone’s fault not their own decision making. They always see themselves as victims. They never learn life lessons. They end up become a problem and having Indefinite problems in their lives. To void that choose to be accountable and responsible for your actions.
To lovers out there ….When your partner is an understanding person and is not saying anything. It doesn’t mean they are fine with you not doing anything for them.You should initiate things to please them. You should initiate certain actions or gestures. Everyone loves to be taken care of. Even those who don’t ask for it. Having someone doing things to you or for you in a relationship is a must. The sentiment must be reciprocated.
Thinking you can do something and being able to do something you think about those are two different things. Perception is not always the reality. All if not everyone has good and better plan until execution. Winners are not just thinkers but are doers who some of them failed several times before perfecting it.
Be careful that the small things you say they don’t matter don’t destroy you. Most of Microwave appliance are destroyed and not working today because of cockroaches.
To lovers out there … Relationship is like a bank. You will always lose your partner to the person who shows more interest to them ,if you don’t. To someone who is willing to investing their own precious time to them. If your partner doesn’t profit anything from you. Then they will close their account and will try to find another bank.
To lovers out there …It is sad that most relationships are driven by guilt and not driven by passion. You find your partner is being sweet, caring, and doing things for you because they are feeling guilty about something they are doing behind your back.
In general despite all our shortcomings and the problems we face daily. We are a fun, loving and caring nation. Lets all endorse that being stronger together. Any solution that is diving us. It is not a solution but it is a future problem.
If you don’t choose to stand for what you believe in. You will fall for everything.
To lovers out there ….Choose a partner that wouldn’t want to hurt you or cause you harm even when they are angry at you.
When you are good person and you choose to do bad things, because you see other people doing them. It always ends badly for you. You will suffer the most, feel the pain , get injured & hurt the most. Choose to do what is right for you not what other people are doing.
To lovers out there …If you meet the wrong partner in a relationship. You will lose everything you have. If you meet the right partner In a relationship. You will gain everything you don’t have.
Sometimes the reason your life is not changing for better. Good things not happening for you, it is because you choose to hustle or swindle people who are helping you. Every time you get an opportunity to be yourself. You choose to hurt, plot, destroy, steal, blackmail, back stab ,use or play the people who are looking out for you.
Whenever there is fallout, secrets come out. Carefully choose people you hang around with or people you call friends. Not everyone who is close to you wishes well for you. Some come close so they can destroy you. Not everyone is genuine happy when your life is good. Choose who confide and open to. Choose who you bring close to your circle and who you trust with your life and secrets.
Those people who are using God’s name to threaten others and to scam others. Remember, You must not misuse the name of the LORD your God. The LORD will not let you go unpunished if you misuse his name.Exodus 20:7
It is very important on how you start. Like ,How you start your day. How you start your year. How you start your conversation, friendship or relationship. How you start your business, party, group . How you start your journey, because winning in life is mostly determine by how you start or when you start.
To lovers out there …A person who loves you . Will give you everything even if they have nothing, but a person who doesn’t love you will give you only excuses even if they have everything. People will literally do anything for the ones they love and do nothing for the ones they don’t love. It is not a matter of having more or of lacking. It is the matter of the heart if they love you or not.
The different between other races or other people is that they choose to fight for each other and while others choose to fight each other . The ones who choose to fight for each other are always winning in life. The other ones who choose to fight each other are always losing in life. You choose which one you are going to be.
Some people when they are busy enjoying the money. They don’t care how the money is got or who gives them the money. They don’t see anything wrong and are happily willing to do anything to get that money. Once the money is finished or are now denied to have it. They are only left with their actions. They play a victim card, because they are no longer benefiting.
While you are proudly boasting about being single. I am sad that you don’t get to experience the love, romance, comfort, attention, cuddles, support, care, passion and pleasures of life .
People should be getting bad services or product because you chose to be in the wrong field or you chose to hate your job, supervisor, manager , boss, employment or what you do.
It is easy to fool, influence , excite, persuade, manipulate people who have an empty mind, regardless of whether they have PhD, Degrees , Certificates and experience . Qualifications don’t equate to intelligence.
Some of the things are not as bad as they say, but they might be bad to you, because they are taking all your time and depriving you In what you would have become.
Choose not to be intimidated by people on social media, because those who can fake it better are considered the real ones. Choose to do your own thing no matter what, because that is not only a real thing, but it is your reality.
Most people are now seeking problems, troubles and pain, because that is the only time they get attention, affection and recognition. That is why some are vile, mean, and provocative. They never got the love and attention they needed.
Everything is meant to be gained and lost. Money, jobs, position, titles, friends, relationships, food, and happiness. The trick is to make sure whatever you gained. You hold on to it the longest. You make the best of it. You enjoy it. You preserve it. You appreciate it. You value it. You don’t give it away or lose it before time. That includes life itself.
This is the message to Important people. The people who are on duty today. Who couldn’t be with their families or loved ones. Merry Christmas. May you get more blessings and the gift of Love, Peace, Prosperity and Happiness. Life full of laughter, positivity, and good things.
No matter how shy we are. We are all have naughty side that we want to show to someone. Just that some people show their naughty side to everyone. We just show our naughty side to the ones we think are special.
To lovers out there …Relationship is like work. The more time you invest in it. The more you contribute. The better the outcome or more profit you make. The more you put in. The more you get out of it.