The danger of following a wrong or a bad leader. You will always have to defend nonsense .. You compromise who you are, what you believe and your integrity . You will always have to justify what they do or say. Some leaders would you lead you astray or lead you to your death. Don’t be a blind follower or be lead by a blind person. If you have to insult others to defend your leader. Just know that your leader is a problem.
To lovers out there …Some people are the way they are. They even converted and became something they are not, because they had never experienced or received love from their partners. They had been into multiple relationships or marriages but had never experienced true love shown to them. Reason might be because of their attitude or behavior. Might be also because of the type or preferences they select. Not that they have bad luck or not meant to be loved.
Don’t let their hate stop you from doing your thing. People can hate you for doing the right thing. Some people will be doing wrong, evil, shameful, bad things and be hating you for condemning them.
To lovers out there ….Until you date someone who loves you. You will always give and get nothing In return. Giving your time, efforts, sacrifice, money, love, care , respect, peace, kindness, help, understanding, support and giving yourself.
Most people are who they are because of fear. They had changed their character, personality, behavior and their being because they fear something or someone.
In everything, You must do what is right for you , because those you thought they care. Might be the ones indirectly fighting you .The ones who are plotting against you and the ones who are setting you up for failure. Most people if not all don’t really care if they are not benefiting from you.
They teach you that you are not black enough if you don’t hate the whites and you are not white enough if you don’t hate the blacks. What they don’t tell you is that hate will consume you too and make you a bad person. People who avenge, retaliate, reciprocate hate become worse than the person they choose to hate .
Most of the time. We don’t have problems, but the people we choose to bring into our lives or circle are the ones being problematic or bringing problems into our lives.
I may not be the most educated, brightest nor be the smartest or wisest man, but the difference between me and you is that I cannot be fooled or made a fool like you.
To lovers out there …You are as important as your partner wants you to be to them.There is a huge difference between being important out there and being important to someone.
Most of the bad things happening started as a joke. Then It was game over. Think about this every time when you are busy laughing at the foolish things , you should be reprimanding, because tomorrow you will be crying about the very same things you are laughing at now.
You should be ashamed of yourself for mocking, ridiculing and making fun of people because they are not educated or not working. Most people are not educated because they can’t afford to and are not given opportunities to. They are not working because of high employment rate, and they are not being hired.
When you make wrong choices in life and people keep quiet. It doesn’t mean they approve . Most of the time . People speak about wrong choices you make in life when those choices affect them.
Hating someone is wrong, but since you feel like it. It is ok to hate your father, but is not ok to hate every father because of your father.
Kuncono kakhulu ukuyihluphekela. Kunokuthi uyihluphekise . Abantu abaningi bayihluphekisa ngezenzo zabo .
When they thought they are done with you. May you rise and come back stronger just like France in the World Cup final in Qatar. May you have a fighting spirit just like Kylian Mbappe and never give up no matter the circumstances.
Love is always the solution. Don’t be blind sided by hate because it is easily accessible. Let us all love each other, regardless of race, nationality, gender, region, country, tribe, culture, religion or political party. Unity is power. We should all be fighting for peace rather than fighting each other.
To lovers out there …Thou shall not condone toxic behavior or abuse in a relationship.Thou shall not compare their relationship with other relationships or partners.Thou shall not compete with their partner.Thou shall care for their partnerThou shall compromise for their partner .Relationship is about meeting each other halfway.You need to be on the same way again.
There are good and bad leaders and there are good and bad people. It is much worse when a bad leader is also a bad person.
Talk is cheap that is why everyone can afford to have an opinion or say on what you do. But taking an action is costly. It will cost you your time, money, effort, skills, focus, experience, knowledge, commitment, dedication, patient ,determination and not everyone has that.
I choose to work hard and achieve something in my life. So, that people would stop talking about me and start talking about what I do. Do the work and let the work do the talking.
To lovers out there …Why would you want to keep or to control someone, especially your partner. People who are in a relationship should stay because they want to and should have a free will to say and do anything they want. It is dangerous and it ends badly forcing someone to do something they don’t want.
Some people are choosing to see the end, Meanwhile, others are choosing to see the new beginning. Whatever you see will determine how you will act. How you will do or what you will do.
To lovers out there …Love is about your personality, behavior and character. It is not about your achievement, position, tittles and money. Your relationship might be but not love. Love is about you and the relationship is about what you have .
I am hurt by seeing talented and skillful people not getting their breakthrough, appreciation and recognition they deserve.
Don’t feel embarrassed if the job you do gives you money. You are fighting a good war. When you are fighting poverty.
Never be horrible to people who are good to you .Never be ungrateful to their sacrifice and shame their efforts. Never think so highly of yourself and nothing of them. You will suffer in life.
When you let cellphones, TV, Internet and social media raise your child . Your child will love and live for drama . Everything good or bad will be entertainment to them. They won’t know where to draw the line. They won’t take things seriously. They would be Inspired by lies and end up living a lie themselves.
To lovers out there….You should not avoid love but avoid certain people in your life. Love doesn’t hurt ,but it is certain people who hurt others in the name of love.
To lovers out there …..The worse and sad thing in life is not to have someone who really understands you. Someone who can put up with you , when you say and do stupid things. Both of you laughing about it rather than being judged from it. Someone who will always have you back and who genuinely cares about you.
Everything is meant to be gained and lost. Money, jobs, position, titles, friends, relationships, food, and happiness. The trick is to make sure whatever you gained. You hold on to it the longest. You make the best of it. You enjoy it. You preserve it. You appreciate it. You value it. You don’t give it away or lose it before time. That includes life itself.
To Lovers out there ….Find someone who values, cherish and appreciates you. You will enjoy life and you would know the meaning of living. Everything will seem easy and possible .Even thou it is not.
Sometimes we must choose to congratulate and support those who are doing well. Instead of choosing to do what they are doing. Because they were praised in cooking, now suddenly everyone wants to be chefs . We need to understand that sometimes it is not the recipe but the cooker. We lose our success and opportunities by not sticking to our own lane , but by trying to do what everyone who is doing well did.
A society without morals by default teaches wrong things and behavior. That everyone there graduates to become a world class freak, schmuck and a criminal. They end up becoming a burden and a problem to the system and to everyone.
Life always teaches lessons. Some situations are a learning experience. You need to pay attention which ones are those ones, So that the history doesn’t repeat itself and because those ones are the ones that will build you up . Making you stronger, wiser, richer, happier and successful.
Most people choose likes, retweets, comments, impressions, engagement and content over their life, health, mentality, dignity, relationship, friendship, and sanity. They are willing to do and say anything for impressions. They start by harming others first, then they end up harming themselves by what they do or say. Choose to use social media responsibly and don’t be used by social media.
People who don’t have your best interest at heart are dangerous people to be around with or to hang around with. They are a threat and danger to your success and well being.
Sometimes we are not doing things because they are easy or because we like them. Most of the time . We do things because they are a necessity. That is why when comes time for those things being difficult, as much as we hate them, or we are failing in doing them. We don’t give up. We hold on until the end, because our good future and survival is depended on them.
Cheap or free things are costly. Most of the cheap things or cheap labour are not cheap. You are not saving costs, because they are going to cost you more in the long run and might even end up costing you your life.
People should note be getting bad services or product because you chose to be in the wrong field or you chose to hate your job, supervisor, manager , boss, employment or what you do.
Choose your words carefully when speaking to others. Choose you action carefully when Interacting with others, because these days everyone is looking for an opportunity to become a victim .
To lovers out there …When you have what your partner wants. They will find any reason to stay. They will justify your every action. When you no longer have what they want. They will find any reason to go or to leave you. Everything you do or say will be wrong.
To lovers out there …Everybody deserves love, but not everybody deserves you. You also deserve love , but you don’t deserve everybody.
To lovers out there …Social media standards destroy relationships and marriages. What you need to understand is people are not the same. Everyone has their own unique custom features, which is created by their experience that makes them behave or act different than others. Whatever you read online or anywhere might not apply to all man or women even thou it applies to Peter or Mary.
Even if people can call you a failure in life. At least have something that you can point out that you are proud of. Something that you did for yourself or for others.
Don’t plan or make a financial decision that is dependent on another person without letting them know first.
If you choose to say no to good things and good people. You will end up saying yes to bad things and bad people. In life you are always first given an opportunity of free will, where you have lot of options to choose from. If you miss , abuse or take for granted that opportunity. Later you will feel like you have no choice and are forced to choose whatever, because the options remaining don’t favor you.
You owe no one explanation of what you do what you do. Especially those who ask not to help but to judge you.
Choose not to waste your talent or skills.Remember, whatever you don’t use you lose.Whatever gift you have in you.Choose to share it with the world.
You owe no one explanation of why you do what you do. Especially those who ask not to help but to judge you.
People who don’t value you and who think you don’t matter you are very good in destroying you and destroying everything you have.
Whatever you are giving. If the price is not mentioned. It might cost you, your whole life or it might cost you your life. Nothing is for free.
To lovers out there …Partners who don’t know the cost of things will cost you . If they don’t know what it cost, you to have what you have or to live the life you are living. They will cost you to lose everything you have that includes your dignity and peace.
Choose to not to make social media and other people make you think that you are not good enough.
Don’t be deceived .People know very well what they are doing. They only act as victims when their intensions and plan had failed.
Everyone should behave like a brand, or they are representing a brand to be successful in these days where everything is controlled by the internet or social media.
Choose to differentiate If you like something, or you like the idea of liking something. There is a difference between liking sex and liking the idea of having sex. Most people lose themselves or destroy themselves thinking they like something, only to find the just like the idea of it.
The people who become successful. Are those who work on a plan and not those who are planning on luck.
To lovers out there …Be reasonable , practical and considerate to your partner . Other people should not suffer because they you or are interested in you.
To lovers out there …It is sad to see relationships ending because of personal problems and not because of relationship problems.
People are very political and vocal on social media. They are politics analysts until it is time to vote. Then they are silent, mute, nowhere and not participating. All they do is talk but not act.
To lovers out there …Paying a revenge to your ex by being in a relationship that you are not happy in. It is not right and healthy for you. You are hurting yourself more by trying to hurt them. Trying to be spiteful to them by sleeping around with strangers or their friends. It is a sign that you are not mental ok. You need to heal. Please seek help. How is offering yourself to people a punishment to them.
Take advantage of every opportunity presented to you. Don’t make a mistake of taking advantage of the people who are presenting opportunities to you instead of taking advantage of the opportunities they present to you.
Social media is very good in making or calling people who suffer from main character syndrome and who like getting attention activists.