In reality there are no persons, only threads of memories and habits. At the moment of realization, the person ceases.
It is always the false that makes you suffer, the false desires and fears, the false values and ideas, the false relationships between people. Abandon the false and you are free of pain; truth makes happy, truth liberates.
You will receive everything you need when you stop asking for what you do not need
Wisdom is knowing I am nothing,
Love is knowing I am everything,
and between the two my life moves.
You may die a hundred deaths without a break in the mental turmoil. Or, you may keep your body and die only in the mind. The death of the mind is the birth of wisdom.